My mom is the exact same way, but it's more my dad the tries to get her out of the house instead of me, since I'm still a teen. Well anyways, I dont know why but she cant hold a job. She would just rather relax all day instead of earning money, which we've been very short on. Then my dad spends all day yelling at her which is so stressful. Blah, anyways, even though you think she doesnt care, the only option you really have is to talk to her. Tell her that moping around and complaining isnt what he would of wanted and she deserves to get a job she is happy with. It might take awhile, but instead of forcing her to apply for random jobs, maybe get her intrested in something she likes? That way she wont have room to complain. Just a suggestion.