I have been doing a lot of thinking about my issues with ex t.....And I have asked myself, am I just afraid to move on???? I know that it probably sounds silly, but am I really afraid to let go???? I tend to like to torture myself when it comes to things that I cannot control, and maybe I just really like the hurt that this all is doing to me mentally.....Yikes, maybe it really is time for me to let it all go..... Is this the major road block that has stopped me from the healing process.....Any feedback or comments.....