Yes, focus on you right now. She can and will get thru this.

As for the contract, I'm not sure really. I've never had one before. But I think that the idea of having a thread devoted to it is a good one. That way, you can check in every day. I also think honesty is really important. If you're having a down day, say so. We don't judge you and we won't flip out. We just wanna support and love you.