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Originally Posted by BipolarBug
Thanks so much. I would give anything to have a husband like you described. He describes himself as a victim because he has to put up with a bipolar person. He says yes it's hard for the person with bipolar but worse for those who have to live with their crap.
I have been much better in the last couple months because my meds finally got to a therapeutic level, but I still struggle with him because he's my worse trigger. I just hate my life right now and hate who I am. I desperately wish he could support and love me through this but I don't think he wants to or is capable.
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His claiming to be a victim is laughable. Is he serious about this? He does not HAVE to live with a bipolar person, he chooses to live there. He sounds like he has mental health issues that he is afraid to face. I hope after everything you have read here that you decide to tell him to man up or move on. You have to be strong for yourself and your children, and he is trying to break you. Dont let him. If he has mommy issues send his *** home. You have to much on your plate to deal with someones elses ****. Girl get out of there, he is a sorry excuse for a man. I seriously hope you do this for yourself so you can heal inside. Do NOT be dependent on someone else for inner peace. This is up to you to create and keep. So many
to you and your kids. You can send me a message anytime. I will be here to listen and give advice.
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Crystal
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Bipolar 1
OCD
BPD
Anxiety with panic disorder
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