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Old Apr 18, 2012, 05:31 AM
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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster View Post
Today my ex-husband ended whatever remained of the relationship. Sure, we separated 3 years ago, but there was something left. No - now more. He wants to forget about me and all those people who I have brought to our lives, and build a life for himself. I am in search of ways to commemorate it in my mind. Music, perhaps?
Ending a marriage is parallel to a death. As I have been divorced and widowed I can tell you that it is a fact.

We put a great deal of time and energy into a marriage and when it ends. No matter why, there is grief involved.

Don't kick your self over the shoulda, woulda, coulda's. It's pointless. Celebrate the good times, don't dwell on the bad.

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