i havn't responded much because i dont know a lot about the DBT stuff these days.i think when i was living in group homes i got a modified version of this .but i do see all the pain and confusion this is causing you and i hope seeing this other T may be able to help with figuring some of it out so you can figure out what to do with all of this that was handed to you.kacey you are an amazing person and you deserve your T's best and if he isn't giving it to you maybe you should put some thought into changing and i hope seeing this 2ed T will help you figure this out.BIG HUGS