That is exactly what I told him the first time I brought up this issue, "I'm scared that you will act on this behavior" I told him that I wanted more kids with him but that if we had a girl i would be 100% uncomfortable with him being around her. I don't know. We always talk and never take any action, I just drop the topic so maybe I will be more forceful this time around... because I really don't want to lose him. Under all this weird, sick stuff, he is my best friend and the love of my life.