LightningMan, Sweeping generalizations, about women. I don't just blab, and I have no problem stating what my problem is, and many women don't. Maybe she is having biological problems, not just has an inability to speak.

I agree that talking communication is key here, so many different things night be going on. She could be having problems with the relationship, or she could be depressed and not know it, hormones could play a role, just so many different things. I gree you should talk to her about the importance of the closeness if that's what you feel.

You said you let her know you want more sex, but have you tried to talk to her about why she gets upset about it, or how she is feeling deep down, she night be confused as well.