Just do things one at a time...Pace yourself so you don't get overwhelmed. If you have someone around you that is able to help, ask for help. When I get to my breaking point I normally step back and let someone else do what I can't do... I was in this kind of situation before and it is a little stressful. At the time my daughter was barely 1 and I had to move out within a certain period of time, line up my new place, and make sure I had funds for everything. Her father is much more calmer than I, so he took care of some things and didn't freak out like me  Thank God it all worked out...Make the move and know that when it is all said and done, you will be where you want to be...Like you, I couldn't stand the place I was living at. Loud disrespectful neighbors and the neighborhood was in chaos by the time we were leaving. My reassurance was that I was going to have peace of mind and comfort in the new place. Few months later, I bought my first home...So I'm glad it happened....
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