Yeh, hubby and I finally spoke to each other like really talk. That was quite nice for a change, even though the topic wasn't. We had a blow out because of little things and then I would say something and he would ask me "sorry what did u say" this aggrivated me SO much that I went off even more - louder and faster. So our converstaion was about him not being able to understand me (literally the words coming out of my mouth) because I talk really really really fast and in such an expressive manner that he once told me I talk with sound effects!! So he said I should learn to slow down my speech especially when I'm excited or angry! HOW do I go by that, when my whole life I've spoken like this (my aunts and uncles didn't want me visiting because I was talking their ears off) If there's any advice I would really appreciate it. It might save a bit of my sanity and a lot of my marriage.