In terms of that....she told me she has plenty of support there so she doesn't need me to send written words or energy. She knows I care. And she knows that I'm going through a lot right with an up coming MRI that's causing me to have an increase in anxiety, so she'd rather I spend my energy (or what energy I do have) taking care of me instead of sending her that energy. Other wise she would have allowed me to be supportive of her. She'd rather I spend my energy getting me better than spending it on her and then having me end up worse. It's not that I'm not being supportive of her...it's just she doesn't want me to be.