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Old Apr 18, 2012, 07:49 PM
hamster-bamster hamster-bamster is offline
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Originally Posted by BuggsBunny View Post
If you have a supportive pdoc and lawyer for SSD, Stay put and use them. I'm serious. You can always move 20 minutes after the paperwork comes in okayed. But until then, you are going to need every ounce of support you can get to back you up. Your ex will just have to deal with you remaining in the area. Let him move, if he hates it so much.

~Buggs
I have decided to take your approach, Buggs. My p-doc is super supportive. I may or may not have luck finding someone like her elsewhere. And my ex-husband seems to have cooled down. I do not have many friends, but at least I have someone locally, and no one in Minnesota. So for now I am staying put and filing for SSDI in June.