This makes sense, but he would have made me hate him much less by telling me this was the reason after the fact. lol.

wanttoheal- I have medical bills that I don't even know exist also. I don't know how many, how large the bills are, etc or even if they're under my name. ( I would assume they would have to be, usually they make you give a social security number?) I used to have a big yellow envelope I called the envelope of stress. It contained all or most of the bills that my mom had collected for me, while I was in all the bajillions of hospitals I was in. I was told by my therapist at the time I wasn't allowed to look at it, until I could at least keep myself alive. At one point in that process, I took the envelope and trashed it. It's sort of funny though, for some reason those bills didn't bring down my credit score very much.