From what I understand you can't actually fail at therapy since everyone's experience is different. I havent been going as long as alot of people here at PC. For me getting the courage just to go was half the battle. My T is non-judgemental unlike people IRL so it makes talking about things a bit easier plus there is no pressure and you get to work at your own pace at least thats how it is in my case. I still haven't totally opened up with T, I think it's a process that takes time. The nice part is you get to control the flow of information.