Hi my partner has depression and borderline personality disorder so can understand how you feel. We found for us finding information that was jargon free and reading through it together helped. We also found it useful to print off copys for close family to read so they have some idea of the problems we face and can offer support to both of us. He is your husband and it's natural and normal to want to support him but having someone to support you, to listen when you need to vent your frustrations etc is also very important.