Well it wasn't until a few months into our relationship that he said I could email but I didn't and he offered again and I still didn't. Then in a text conversation he gave me his email address so by continually extending the offer I felt it wasn't a burden on him so I emailed and continue to email -it helped our relationship. He constantly says I can't bother him and he wants to hear from me and keep the connection open between sessions. He has never discouraged my contacting him.

He has said "please call me if you need to" and I call him as needed which is frequent. The best thing he did was reassure me he knows when to set boundaries and will tell me if it's too much. I trust he will.