Sigh. Could be. That she is moving away was key to my "now or never" attitude...plus the fact that she was driving me to distraction with her non-addressing her increased symptomology (because she didn't recognize her disorder.) I hope when things settle, she'll realize that it came from me, and allow the statement to carry it's weight. I meant it for good for her... as she grows older I fear she will come up against it more and more, and hope she will have learned some compensating skills by then. Thanks for replies. (I saw her tonight, and it's like nothing happened...that's part of her disorder I think... can't concentrate and remember etc???)