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Originally Posted by stopdog
Spiritrunner - I do appreciate all your help and that of everyone else. My life is not bad, I have generally learned how to negotiate other people, I know how to extract myself, and there is no reason for me to feel bad and I know it. Connection with the therapist seems improbable and ultimately useless since I cannot understand how it is supposed to help = how I would use such a thing to help me. It is like being handed a bicycle in the middle of the ocean.
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Well, a bike in the middle of the ocean is not going to do you any good, true - but if you're in the middle of the ocean and you're already on a ship, you've got what you need to get to land, where the bike would do you good....
So, say thanks for the bike and if your ship comes to shore, it'll do you good then.
What I mean is, maybe you're gathering info now here that doesn't seem like it makes much sense to you to use right now ..... so you don't have to use it, but do store it, keep it. It might be like a tool that makes more sense to you later, and the use of it might become clearer to you ...... if you get the info put together in a way that makes understanding click and you see how to practically apply the knowledge.