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Old Apr 19, 2012, 12:28 PM
Sunflower0440 Sunflower0440 is offline
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Originally Posted by Roadie View Post
Did you check out the links I gave you? These give you several possible "next steps."

From your responses to the replies so far, however, it sounds as if keeping this man in your life is Priority One for you.

May I ask .. how old are you? How many adult relationships have you been in? Can you imagine yourself and your son making a life on your own?
I'm 20 years old, I've been in other relationships but I guess this is my first "real" relationship. On one hand I can imagine trying to make a life of my own with my son, but I can't imagine being with anyone else, I can't imagine having to schedule visits for my son, I want my son to have his father.

Also the fact that if I would leave him I'm sure he wouldn't get help, he would go back to old ways and there would be no saving him anymore. It would be 100% worse situation if my son would visit him then for us to just be a couple right now. I think I'm more concerned with hurting him by leaving then my own happiness at the moment.