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Irreplaceable · Apr 19, 2012, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by shezbut

Sunflower0440,

Holy smokes, i am just overcome with some intense thoughts about your bf. His tendency to look at young girls sexually is very disturbing.

While it's nice that your bf is willing to stop going to X site, or whatever reassurance that you seek, I can't believe that he will be able to follow through. Pedophiles are nearly impossible to treat. They are extremely resistant to change.

You have a son together, so I'm sure that you have some love for him. I feel bad for telling you how hopeless and sick your fiance's behavior is. I really don't want to hurt or scare you. But having been SA'd myself, I feel that I can't warn you enough. Get out of the house now with your son and seriously limit visiting. Not out of spite, but to protect yourselves from emotional damage. Kids pick up on things incredibly early ~ don't let the cycle go any further! P_L_E_A_S_E!!

Very gentle hugs and best wishes to you. I am so sorry.

THANK YOU...I was sexually abused and I do not take stuff like this lightly. You can't totally "cure" a pedophile. I don't care what anyone on here says. Therapy is no cure BUT it will help him suppress his urges. Then again, dude isn't even being honest all the way I don't think...So, who knows...But yea, get your child out of the house. I'm overly protective of my daughter because of my past and I don't give a doggone who in my family is a pedo. She ain't being around them. And little boys get raped too...You don't know how far he will go...And for that reason alone, I would dip out and not chance him touching my baby. Same thing would apply if my child's father did stuff like this. Adios...Him looking at little 13 year olds, is no different then him looking at 5 year olds. A pedo is a pedo...