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Originally Posted by lido78
Sunflower, we understand that you want to fix your boyfriend, but the other posters who are telling you to leave are concerned with the well-being of your child.
The pain of ending a relationship will never compare to the pain either you or your child would feel should he harm your child... or if your boyfriend is arrested for child pornography or harming a child outside of the family.
I think the bottom line is that he may never be "fixed"....and, he certainly won't get there without therapy. You may not care about your own happiness and don't want to hurt him, but your child has no voice in the matter. Please consider what is best for the child...this is your only option as a parent.
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Are you ****ing kidding me? I'm thinking about my childs well-being 24/7. And like I've said for the second time now....
HE WOULDN'T HURT OUR SON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You guys obviously don't understand because you don't know him, but outside of all of this mess he is a good dad. Mu sons first word was dada, if I took him away to never see his father again (which is what would happen if I moved out considering he works 7 days a week) it would be bad for my son. So I am thinking about MY child... THANK YOU.