((((((((( Rap ))))))))))

Neighbors usually do help each other with their children. I would certainly offer the neighbors goats, babysitting, taking their kids for a week also, or whatever else you can do for them.

Friendship is indeed, a give and take situation, but if you don't have those skills, someone needs to teach you. You can't just "know" something. Forgive me, but I really do think you need to see another t at least long enough to find out if yours is good for you. It sounds like you need some solid training and guidence and your t is not offering that to you.

Please take good care of you.

Hugs,

Jan