Okay. If you're sure he'd never hurt your son, then by all means stay and work it out. In one of your previous posts, however, you wrote: "I told him that I wanted more kids with him but that if we had a girl i would be 100% uncomfortable with him being around her." By your own words, you do not trust him fully. So, please try to understand our concern for you and your son (and any future children that you have with him).

He is looking at child pornography because it sexually arouses him...please consider the consequences if you're wrong about him. Many folks on this site have first hand knowledge of these things...they have been molested by a parent or another close family member. If you are okay with taking this kind of chance, then please find a good therapist.

We KNOW none of this is easy on you, and we do support YOU even if we might not agree with the way you're thinking about things right now.