I stopped caring and worrying about other peoples opinions. They either like me or they can get the hell out of my life. I dont care that I may come off as a lesbian because I dress "butch" sometimes. Other things, like weight and acne, I care about but on a superficial reason that doesnt really have to do with how Im preceived. I just want to take care of myself and feel good about who I am as an individual.

This has led me to believe that its important I learn to not gossip because that hurts people too. Its no ones business unless you make it theres. Thdn you have to respect that they told you and move on. In high school I had super poor skills at keeping things to myself. As I got older I realize the importance of never overindulging your life unless the other person is responsive in that respect. It takes a lot of work. It is also difficult to maintain friendships in general.