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Old Apr 19, 2012, 07:03 PM
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Originally Posted by billi_leli View Post
Hello.

I was looking online for emergency dental care and found this guy in my area.



He took care of me last night when I was feeling so awful and he was nice to me. Did not abuse me, but my mind is confused and crosswired again becaue I "fall in love" with men who are nice to me.

Here is an update:

I googled this particular dentist online to see if he might be a s offender.

I did not find that out, but I did find out on yelp that he is nice to patients in order to "hook them in" and then he is verbally abusive and yells at them and does not explain things and is very intimidating. One woman described his behavior as "menacing"!

I saw several bad reviews and no good ones on yelp and also on some other sites.

Call me paranoid.

But I need to trust myself and if I did not sense him being a s offender, I must have sensed bait and fortunately did not take it!

I am going somewhere else.

I really hate that I was in a vulnerable place the other night and ended up seeing him.

I was in pain. We cannot always judge someone when we really need help in a moment!

I still hate it!

$400 for an emergency visit---a prescript for pain meds, his "nice behavior bait" and now my bite is off even more!

Billi
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