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Originally Posted by tigergirl
then of course there is that whole issue of not remembered abuse so did it happen or not and what do we remember of those first few years of our lives. Also awhile back someone mentioned transference can stem from preverbal years; but how can it impact so much when we don't knowingly remember -
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Not having any confirmation of the abuse must be really confusing. I really feel for those that struggle with that uncertainty. I was "fortunate" enough to have my memories confirmed by the other child who was living there and indirectly confirmed by my mother who in retrospect was able to remember all the oddities and red flags that she missed at the time (my sister was being sent to Houston for treatment for her first bout with cancer and my parents were rightfully very distracted). It's a long story.