Oh I didn't mean a psychological game like normal people play Silent. I meant more that he was entertaining his desires to be a female and was in someways trying to psychologically imagine he was you (a female type that he would like himself to be).
He was wanting to find a way to experience the female body but not sexually, experience it to add to his ability to imagine he is one. I am not sure that is healthy for you to allow him to do. I think it goes pretty deep with him and this is something that is hard to understand.
From what I know (which is not high level knowledge) most men that want to be women, actually eventually seek medical/surgical ways to achieve this. Now I know you said he doesn't believe in this but what else can he do? And I would not want him to increase his desires to where he would not be able to psychologically handle it.
Oh, and codependants are often people that assist others who may be doing something harmful to themselves. I know you would not want that, you are a nurturer by nature so that would be to asist others to gain and be healthier and thrive. I think you are confused about how to help this young man, I don't want you to get drawn into something that may ultimately hurt him psychologically.
I think you pretty much got my message though, yes, I am sure you want to give it some thought.
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