I mean just get sick and tired of wallowing around in all the emotional crap and just start living your life right now, as it actually is.

I mean how hard would it actually be to say "enough! I'm going to choose for myself what I want my life to be like, and this ain't it."

Just letting go of the worry, the doubt, the pain and opening yourself up to anything and everything.

Realizing that you are one tough mother ****er and can take it!