Hello, i can definetly relate. Im very sorry that your going through this. I have a husband who tells me everyday that im gorgous but i dont believe him. Sometimes you should just take the consideration that there are people out there that love you. And yes you have issues but dosent everyone. I believe that everyone needs a theripist. From the moment that they exit their mom. Everyone has an issue with something. mabey you should just sit down and talk with her and see what she really thinks..and if you have done this then continue to talk to her if she loves you and dont want to end this relationship then she will listen... Again im sorry that your dealing with this.. God bless