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Originally Posted by dark_heart_x
This is terrible!
No one should ever, ever, ever, EVER make you choose. No one should make you choose "either be my friend or their friend." No one should make you choose "me or your family." No one should make you choose!
This is an abusive statement: "you choose me or you family, and if you choose them I'll leave you." He can't isolate you away from your family. That's also an abusive behavior.
I know you love him. I know it is hard and you are pregnant. But he cannot make you choose. Tell him you will not choose. That is wrong of him. If he leaves you, then you must be strong. But, I have a feeling if you stand up to him it may cause a big fight and be scary. But maybe he will see. If not... well, then you have just escaped an abusive life.  |
Thanks dark heart. I agree with you he cant put me in this position
I'm scare to tell him what i feel about it cause i dont want to start a fight and not in my condition. I couldnt sleep all night i got so stress. I know if i would of put him in that position he would of chose his family over me.