I also have this problem but a huge part of this is that my husband was my best friend. Then one day he just randomly stopped. We didn't split up or anything. He just now has other friends and I'm just his "wife." We used to make friends together, and even if like he was friends with so and so and I was friends with so and so's wife... you know, it was like a social circle. This really makes me mad because I don't believe one person should exclude the other from their life like this, and that's not how a marriage should be. And I also never saw it coming or expected it.

But... now I'm screwed. So, my advice is to not count on your boyfriend 100% because what happens if he wigs out. It makes me mad to have to give this advice, but because it happened to me I don't want it to happen to others.