Thread: "I don't know"
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Old Apr 20, 2012, 07:45 PM
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Thanks for all of the responses! This is such a helpful and warm community. I'm going to take these ideas with me next week and see what we can figure out, so this can stop bugging me!
Good for you. That will be an interesting session, I'll bet!

I mentioned your thread to my T yesterday. She asked what would be a better question instead of the "Where did you go just now" kind of question. So I suggested something more direct, something like "Do you know why you feel like not communicating [with me] right now?" .. with or without the [with me], and I think she may try that the next time. She is concerned that it may feel blaming/shaming and doesn't want that to happen. But I can't say how it will feel and I'm willing to see how it goes.

So thanks for contributing to my therapy, and good luck in your next session when you talk more about your post and the replies