this may sound cliche' to say but not everybody cares about looks. i know someone that was horribly disfigured through no fault of her own and she found someone. that person didnt care that she wasnt the pretty her she used to be. she has bipolar I so she had a mental problem too. and i know you probably think im just trying to make you feel better but i do want you to know it doesnt matter what you look like or what problem you're facing mentally, if a person is right for you, they will see the inner beauty of you and all your alters! good luck
Rosalie