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Old Apr 21, 2012, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions View Post
This could lead to an incredibly useful discussion and learning experience for you. It seems that you made an assumption based on what you saw, and that - in turn - affected the way you react, without even knowing whether or not what you saw was an accurate reflection of what your T felt. This discovery could help you see this in other areas.....
Thanks for this. This is a good way to think about it. T has told me several times she can handle me expressing anger toward her or the process. I guess I have been assuming t might react like I do. And little part of me is afraid she might say, yes she was hurt - even though I know that is very unlikely.
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