i have just been given a different dx that threw me for a loop as far as accepting it, dealing with it, etc

in reference to what you said "dude, just suck it up", This the first time i have taken that healing attitude with me. i told t i want tools to deal with this. my usual behaviour would be to ignore it for a year and then talk about it.

but now im like, what you said "dude, suck it up" telling myself okay, what is the next step, get out there and move!!!!

to me that is progress and healing and taking control!!!

so, yea! definitely!!!!! thanks for this post!