I'm sorry that you find your husband porn interest hurtful. In my experience and through talk with friends on the topic i've reached a few 'opinions'. Men in general need some visual stimulation to get aroused, where as women are far more inclined to imagine a whole romantic scenario. Your husband finding porn arousing is not a bad thing, he's not hiding it from you in fact bringing it in to bed while next to you, may have been an attemp to share something with you. Men as we all know find it hard to communicate so what you have seen as a insult may just been his attemp to open up a discussion. I think Brad Pitt is fit and have often said in gest i wouldn't kick him out of bed, but that does not mean i love my other half any less, or that i don't find him sexually attractive Please try not to condem your husbands sexual tastes it will only breed more disharmony and usually ends up with sneaking around and hiding things.