Hey, Chipperdear. I am not so sure that the performance anxiety is weakening your libido. Your libido is there. The performance anxiety is blocking you from taking action in order to meet your sexual needs. Treating the performance anxiety will free you up to start taking action to make up for lost time. You have a valid reason for not taking action sooner, and you should not be ashamed of that. Please seek treatment for performance anxiety so that you can get on with your life and enjoy it! There is not greater motivation in life!!