I also love to give oral sex especially if the woman has a nice body and has a great orgasm. It’s a real turn on. Occasionally, I date women who don’t have an orgasm and about ten minutes is all they can take - they get bored and they just say “I want you in me” or something like that. To me, it’s no big deal and I gladly change modes. Your husband may be trying to make you have an orgasm. Maybe he thinks this is the only way you climax. He’s trying to please you.