It might help if my therapist set goals for me... he lets me follow my own agenda and I don't think I would know if he were bored or not... I've said some pretty mean things to him and he hasn't really expressed any feelings. If you get a good therapist its all about you and for the first few months you talk all about you and then go after accomplishing what you want to accomplish. The therapist is there to encourage you to do what you think is best it has nothing to do with the therapists beliefs/opinions- they're totally accepting and unbiased