When I was in my late 20's and having trouble not being able to make relationships, I thought about that and realized that my body worked like it was supposed to so the rest had to be head, heart, education and experience. We can't just suddenly be good at relationships, especially with no experience. It's not that we're bad at social things, we haven't practiced them! We look around and see other people seeming to do them well but we don't really know what we're looking at because we don't have enough experience to imagine what could be right or wrong.

I still remember when I was 15 and saw my best friend go by driving a car, the driver's ed car full of other students and the teacher. Seeing her at the wheel, I felt like I was so young and backwards. It wasn't like that!