itash your children seem to possibly have behaviors perhaps similar to us when we were drinking. it sounds to me that family and individual counseling would help all of you. mind you i can see that right now all the time is already spent on your children's probs with addiction. i'm glad your wife has agreed to marriage counseling with you too. two parents working together may save your marriage and deal with your chilren's addictions too. the consequences of addiction are a high price to pay. your being sober can at least offer you some stabiity to deal with all this. i wish you well.
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Last edited by madisgram; Apr 22, 2012 at 11:28 AM.
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