My husband cheated on me with a co worker. We have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids. He said that he did it because of lack of attention from me. Really he has not been paying me any attention either. We both have seemed to have grown apart. He says that he loves only me and that the affair with her was only one time. Now he wants the marriage to work, but I have my doubts. I want to give him another chance, but I am so afraid of this happening again. Anybody been thru this. Is there any hope for this marriage?