Thanks all for the support !!! bless all of you madisgram your message really made me think, I believe U are right in allot ways, I raised a 22 year old, never had any issues like I am going through now is so weird an scary very upsetting at times,counseling I would agree to all of it, but in my house I wish myself family could go else were instead in my house that's what upsets me most is strangers in my house all week long.The marriage counseling we had 1 visit couldn't get another appointment for 3 weeks then I think we will get to go weekly then I believe that will help a grate deal I hope so cause I really do love my wife she is my best friend as well. Leed you are so sweet you have put a smile on my face every time you have helped me, you have a very special gift I wish you always the best, thank you so so much you are awesome person with a grate caring heart hugs 2 U always.