Zen, I just wanted to say that's it's amazing how incredibly devoted you are to building a strong relationship with your husband...well, both of you are. In a day and age where divorce seems like such a viable alternative for so many, to see a lot of people here working so hard to make their relationships work is inspirational. Thanks for sharing this, it was a definite feel-good.

bp

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