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Originally Posted by isadora
Well it seems he wants us to have more like private life. And for the grandparents i think they are upset cause he didnt tell them right away. It wasnt my fault i kept telling my boyfriend to tell them but he would always tell me later and later  He promised me he was going to tell them in feb but he didnt then he told me in march and nothing. I got tried of telling him over and over but he never listened to me. Right now he's not even talking to me just because what happen that his parents already know. |
I'm sorry to say but I know what it is to have someone who gets mad over totally unreasonable things. Having a "private life" does not mean that you keep your baby a secret. That's ridiculous. I see you saying "it wasn't my fault." That really rings a bell in me. I know what it is to be in a relationship where everything is "my fault." I'm going to tell you that if you're in that situation, it isn't going to get better. It is going to get worse and it's exhausting.
This is a situation where I think you don't have a partner. You have a person who may be controling. I'm sorry, but you're right. Even if he doesn't physically leave you, the only people you're going to have for help is probably your family. If you cut them out, that would be a bad idea.
