Hello,

I am not very good at making friends. But in 2009 I had made three friends. It was a husband and wife and the (guys) brother and his best friend. They were really nice and fun people and we (along with my husband,) spent a lot of time together and had a lot of fun. I got along with them really well.

Then, after about six months, my bipolar was really bad and I just randomly stopped contacting them. My husband also stopped contacting them, probably because they were more my friends than his. Anyway, I have been regretting this for a long time.

Well, it has come down to this point where I realize I have no friends with interests like mine. I would love to have a group of friends to hang out with again. But, I would really like that particular group of friends. I haven't spoken to them in all these years, though, so that may be impossible.

Anyway, I still have her e-mail address and I am tempted to e-mail and say hello and see what they are up to. At the same time, I'm afraid to do this. I'm afraid it might be presumptuous to just randomly e-mail someone after three years. Plus maybe she doesn't use that e-mail any more. Or maybe they are upset with me...

Anyway, my question is: would it be wrong of me to e-mail someone out of the blue after three years of never talking to them? If you got such an e-mail would you be mad?

Thanks