I couldn't read the whole thing because it is hard for me to read. But, from what I read the answer is: Yes.

This man is wrong for you. This man is a jerk. Leed is right, he has his cake and eats it too. Both you and his wife should dump him.

Also cheating on you. So he's cheating on his mistress. And you cheated on him... I mean, the whole relationship is a train wreck.

You need to end it. Also, if you're with a guy who has kids he always has to talk to his ex even if they are divorced. That's what happens. But, he shouldn't be having a wife, a mistress, and a girlfriend.

My advice is to get single and stay single and figure out yourself and be strong as yourself alone. Then stay away from married men.