I'm sorry to say but I know what it is to have someone who gets mad over totally unreasonable things. Having a "private life" does not mean that you keep your baby a secret. That's ridiculous. I see you saying "it wasn't my fault." That really rings a bell in me. I know what it is to be in a relationship where everything is "my fault." I'm going to tell you that if you're in that situation, it isn't going to get better. It is going to get worse and it's exhausting.

This is a situation where I think you don't have a partner. You have a person who may be controling. I'm sorry, but you're right. Even if he doesn't physically leave you, the only people you're going to have for help is probably your family. If you cut them out, that would be a bad idea.