I am so glad that I know a bit more about you right now. You sound level headed and above all mature. I am so glad that you are even able to support yourself and your children. I wasn't and that has taken its toll on my life. Whole nother soap opera there.... Anytime you need or just want someone to talk with I am pretty much available... sad sounding as that is, my shoulder can carry alot of weight.. please remember that.. when you need a friend. Take care and you know what? I think you are going to get through all of this and end up feeling so good and being happy... just a feeling. Take care and talk with ya later Linda