Nina I know you have the strength to endure this...you are a very strong woman with a great many assets...one being your love of people and the other being loved by so many...sometimes when things get so jumbled up in our lives we can not see a way out the one thing we need more than anything is just someone to reach out a hand and offer us a shoulder to lean on...your family loves you Nina...they really do...your boy is doing what he can to relieve his stress and his saying things that are nasty is his way of getting a reaction out of you...the best thing you can do is to reassure him that you love him very much...you will make it sweetie...I know you will...with all this going on and probably more we don't know about it is no wonder your tumbly is upset...Hugs for you dear lady...take it easy and try to be a little more kind to yourself...